Parenting

You may not realize it, but you have a wealth of stories to share. You don't have to invent them on the spot. Personal stories, particularly from your childhood or from books you've read, are good starters. Preschoolers and toddlers enjoy stories abo...

You may not realize it, but you have a wealth of s...

12. And indeed We bestowed upon Lukman Al-Hikmah (wisdom and religious understanding, etc.) saying: "Give thanks to Allah," and whoever gives thanks, he gives thanks for (the good of) his own self. And whoever is unthankful, then verily, Allah is All...

12. And indeed We bestowed upon Lukman Al-Hikmah (...

"Mom, I am bored!" "Mom, what can I do?" "Can I play outside?" "Can I visit a friend?" These are questions almost every mother hears from her children during summer vacation when children have a lot of free time to spare. Some parents choose the easi...

"Mom, I am bored!" "Mom, what can I do?" "Can I pl...

Self-esteem is important because it is seen as a central factor in positive social and emotional adjustment. Children with high self-esteem are capable of making good decisions, are proud of their accomplishments, and are willing to take responsibili...

Self-esteem is important because it is seen as a c...

"Tell them I'm not here," we yell to our spouse or children as the telephone rings. Although we might no have noticed it, we have just set an example of lying for our children. When they see us lying, they may say to themselves that it's okay to lie....

"Tell them I'm not here," we yell to our spouse or...

Parents often have very high academic and career expectations for their children, which some children cannot live up to. Unfortunately, in some societies concern about disappointing one's parents is a tragedy the student cannot deal with, so he kills...

Parents often have very high academic and career e...

In discussions about how to help Muslim teenagers maintain the practice of Islam and stay involved in the Muslim community (ever notice how most stop coming to Islamic weekend school after they turn 12), strategies discussed amongst Muslims in the We...

In discussions about how to help Muslim teenagers ...

"Mommy! Daddy! Look at what I did!" Children, their faces beaming with joy, running to their parents to show them "something special" is an everyday occurrence and an extremely important one. The treasure they hold in their hands might be a picture t...

"Mommy! Daddy! Look at what I did!" Children, thei...

The following tips may help your children relax and be able to concentrate on the learning material instead of the pressure of the test. Make sure your children know what is expected of them before the exam.Children should keep up with the material, ...

The following tips may help your children relax an...

3- Listen to the child when he/she decide to talk about their birth families. Assign feelings when appropriate such as, "Sounds like you are disappointed" or "You must miss your mom" and "I bet you were scared". 4- Give the child a journal. Help him/...

3- Listen to the child when he/she decide to talk ...

Guiding children to behave in appropriate and acceptable ways is challenging for many adults. There are no quick, easy answers because every child is unique. Differing temperaments, personalities, needs, growth patterns, home environment, and family ...

Guiding children to behave in appropriate and acce...

If you want your son to be that human being who would draw his way in life with determination and confidence, one who would overcome all obstacles and would become a successful personality in the future. You have to adopt the following recommendation...

If you want your son to be that human being who wo...

Discipline should not become the domain of just one parent. Mothers and fathers should both participate in the disciplining of their children. Mothers should not threaten their children by telling them that they will get into trouble when their fathe...

Discipline should not become the domain of just on...

1. She doesn't understand it's wrong. Some kids cheat simply because they really don't understand why it's such a bad thing. They studied their spelling words and just can't remember how to spell one of them, so they take a quick peek at their neighb...

1. She doesn't understand it's wrong. Some kids ch...

As Muslim parents, we have an obligation to bring up our children in the best manner---to teach them right from wrong and to show them what we and society expect from them. The following principles should be useful in establishing a child-rearing met...

As Muslim parents, we have an obligation to bring ...

In Islam, Muslim children are considered as precious gifts from Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala. They are loved immensely by their parents and they become the fondness of the family. But children should also be aware of the many rights and responsibilities...

In Islam, Muslim children are considered as precio...

True love is not a feeling. It is a decision. It’s an act of the will to be patient, kind, humble, hopeful, giving, faithful and trusting. When you commit to loving your wife this way, your feelings for her and hers for you will follow. Actively lovi...

True love is not a feeling. It is a decision. It’s...

But truth be told, there was more than just a baby born that day. A father was also born. And whether it’s a biological child or an adopted child, that first meeting birthed an entirely new perspective, and the world will never look the same. How can...

But truth be told, there was more than just a baby...

B) a lack of patience. When mothers have a baby, it's common for the hospital to send them home with a diaper bag or a car seat. If I could send new fathers home with anything, I'd give them a good dose of patience. Patience is crucial because your c...

B) a lack of patience. When mothers have a baby, i...

Fathers who abandon their families, fathers who rarely see their children because of divorce, and fathers who are busy and have very little or nothing to do with the raising of their children are common. Dad gets up early, takes the long drive to wor...

Fathers who abandon their families, fathers who ra...

Your Guide to Fatherhood Many fathers struggle with putting first things first and being able to say no to what is unimportant. But getting to the stage where your time and attention are truly focused on the most important things in life is easier sa...

Your Guide to Fatherhood Many fathers struggle wit...